As parents,we all love to show off our kids to others. On a birthday party a couple of days ago, a family friend asked my five year old daughter,’What do you want to be when you grow up?’ ‘A chef and a doctor.’ My daughter promptly replied. He seemed amused and tried to correct her.’You have to decide and be one. You can’t do both.’ ‘But why. I want to be both.’ The man had no answer. She looked at me and I beamed with pride. MY DAUGHTER HAD JUST STUMPED AN ADULT WITH A QUESTION HE HAD NO ANSWER TO. How many times have you heard someone in your…